Petty Snarls

Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 02:03 pm
[personal profile] tamaranth
Argh. It's one of those weeks, I can tell.

I posted a while back about my father being admitted to hospital. Beginning of the end? Er, no. Not of course that the hospital would tell me anything over the phone. "Could you just drop by and chat to the duty staff?" "Sure, it's only 300 miles."

He went in for some sort of test. He was then (much to everyone's surprise) sent back to the nursing home (I discovered this when a neighbour called to say she'd gone to visit him at the hospital and he wasn't there). Am still not clear on what the test is for, or when the results are due, or what they will do about anything.

Am clear on several things, namely the utter uselessness of Plymouth Hospital Trust: the fact that my father gets very stressed out by hospitals, and this can't have helped: and the incompetence of nursing home staff who have lost his false teeth, thus making it impossible for anyone to have a clue about what he is trying to say.

So I don't need to rush to Plymouth after all.

Except ...


... the TA call-up means that my niece's fiance is off to sunnier climes on 21st February. This, in turn, means that the wedding is being brought forward. To Saturday.

But:

1. Haven't a thing to wear.

2. Had other plans (B-Movie, 'Stop the War' march, sloth).

3. Don't actually like my niece (I am a changeling, you know).

4. Way too late to get a cheap train ticket!


Drugs are my friends: but, to quote Gollum, "You haven't got any friends." Yes, am too stupid to get prescription filled before I run out of painkillers. What a jolly night I had. Am off to Boots in a moment to get excitingly different painkillers, which had better work quickly.

On the bright side:

1. Those painkillers did work, after all. Well, it hurts much more now I'm not taking them.

2. They were almost definitely the cause of the dizzy spells I've been getting, so switching is a sensible idea.

3. And I have a hospital appointment next week, where they will tell me to stop wasting their time cure me instantly.



More, more cheerfully, in another post.

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 06:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladymoonray.livejournal.com
Much sympathy. It must be so frustrating not being able to do anything about most of this.

If you need a reason to stay away on Saturday, invent a crisis. Involve me; I have enough of them. There's bound to be one some time around Saturday.

I don't know why I'm talking to you - I'm hoping you've gone to Boots!

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 06:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tamaranth.livejournal.com
Wedding wouldn't be so bad if it was later in the day. It's at noon, which means going Friday (which bumps the ticket price up by £20)... and if I'm there I need to see my father (and be assertive with the nursing home staff), which means staying til Sunday.

Er, am working on the 'getting dressed' bit before I go to Boots. Reading, writing and proofing have not required this. Dressing gown nice.

Am sloth.

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 06:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladymoonray.livejournal.com
Painkillers also nice. GET DRESSED!

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 08:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tamaranth.livejournal.com
Did get dressed. Boots are giving away chocolates when you spend more than £15 (even including prescriptions) so was All Worth My While.

£80 to go to Plymouth on Friday, and still engineering works on the way back, making the trip 5 hours. I blame George Bush.

Re:

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 08:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladymoonray.livejournal.com
Ouch, ouch, ouch. Are you going?

But yay for free chocolates!

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 09:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tamaranth.livejournal.com
Oh yes. I am going. (So much shit going on family-wise it is untrue). Sister has cheerfully reminded me that no one in Plymouth has seen much of my wardrobe apart from black trousers and jumpers ...

But ugh! will have to sit* in Standard Class, where the screaming brats and Friday-night drunkards are.

*probably 'stand', until Exeter

Re:

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 09:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladymoonray.livejournal.com
I really don't envy you that trip, but perhaps you can find out more about what's going on with your father?

Shall send silly supportive text messages all weekend. Except around noon, of course.

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 06:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sneerpout.livejournal.com
Go to the wedding. You may not like her but she's in very real danger of losing the person she loves and believe me, that's not a nice place to be. Let her have her day.

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 06:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tamaranth.livejournal.com
Oh, I'm more than happy for her to have her day, and I wish her all the best. But I don't think my absence will distress her unduly!

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 06:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lproven.livejournal.com
Oh, bugger.

Wish all well from me.

Which niece? Sarah?

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 09:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tamaranth.livejournal.com
It is indeed Sarah. (Louise has to convert before she's allowed to marry Ali)

Date: Wednesday, February 12th, 2003 09:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lproven.livejournal.com
Convert? Oh, FFS... bloody religion(s). Religion is the root of all evil. Down with all gods!

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 06:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sneerpout.livejournal.com
No, I suspect the prospect of being married for only five minutes before her new husband is thrown to the wolves will be foremost on her mind!

(Apologies for continued fervence on this matter. You remember what my fiance does for a living? Well, that's colouring everything I do at the moment. The above is black humour and while I realise it could look like bitterness, no offence is intended. Just ignore me xxx)

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 09:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] flickgc.livejournal.com
Gah!

::sends big snuggles to Tama::

If there's anything I can do, let me know. If not, just remember that there are lots of people who wish that they could give you big snuggles on Friday night...

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 03:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] serendipoz.livejournal.com
Much luck with father, nursing home, finding the lost and neice. Think of it as a weekend spent in the trenches with better days to come.

*hugs* and such

Date: Tuesday, February 11th, 2003 10:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dellastarr.livejournal.com
Sweetie, *hugs you*.... sorry things are so wild for you now. Been wondering what's up and how you are.... Too many things going on with you these days.

Want to go on a "stop the war" march myself. Sounds more "fun" than weddings...except for the cake and the mints....

Is the job going well? Longing to hear from you! Have read all your drabbles these days and love them!

Hope things settle and you pass the time at the wedding quickly or with some kind of people watching ideas??

Hope you are feeling better. I have your calendar and will send it.... need an address. I'll check with Sharon and see if she has yours. Or bug Kate.

Many good things sent your way!!!

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