Another "Is it just me" ...
Friday, July 6th, 2007 07:47 pmA friend wished me luck with getting the medical profession to view stress and depression as two different things. Though I used to encounter the view that they're exactly the same, I haven't met it for a while. And personal experience, plus Thinking About It, leans strongly towards a distinction: for me, stress is much more about reaction to external events and depression is either from brooding or .. well, like the sudden squalls we're getting, random and unattributable.
What do you think?
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What do you think?
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Date: Friday, July 6th, 2007 06:57 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Friday, July 6th, 2007 07:09 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Friday, July 6th, 2007 07:12 pm (UTC)I've found doctors tend to say
You're depressed - here's some antidepressants, CBT, sweet FA, come back when you're not pregnant, breast-feeding, etc.
You're stressed - here's some pills. Take them when stressful stuff happens and you won't notice a thing.
Some of the stress pills were fun in a recreational kind of way (but unhelpful in terms of getting my life together). CBT was no fun but really helpful. Depression pills - well they kept me going, but I've managed without since the CBT. So far.
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Date: Friday, July 6th, 2007 07:14 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Friday, July 6th, 2007 08:57 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Friday, July 6th, 2007 09:27 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Friday, July 6th, 2007 10:37 pm (UTC)Life is easier if you're stupid.
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Date: Friday, July 6th, 2007 10:38 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Saturday, July 7th, 2007 12:16 am (UTC)And when I'm depressed I tend to choose things that won't stress me ...
... but also when I'm depressed I *avoid* things that might be stressful and this leads to bigger problems (e.g. paying bills, doing tax returns, getting the car taxed/insured, repairing a leaking gutter etc.) so the depression leads to more stressful events and a more stressed life, but it's certainly not the same thing.
And I was really surprised to read your posting and this poll, because I've never been aware of anyone suggesting they were the same thing (not doctors, not other people) but maybe that's just my set of reality filters ...
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Date: Saturday, July 7th, 2007 06:12 am (UTC)no subject
Date: Saturday, July 7th, 2007 07:38 am (UTC)But that's just one way of dealing with stress, and just one result stress can have. We're all maddeningly different, after all :->
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Date: Saturday, July 7th, 2007 07:55 am (UTC)no subject
Date: Saturday, July 7th, 2007 09:57 am (UTC)no subject
Date: Saturday, July 7th, 2007 05:17 pm (UTC)I used to thing anxiety caused my stress and hence my depression. Since CBT, I realise that my own special snowflakiness is that I express stress as anxiety. Less stress = less anxiety. God only knows where the depression comes from.
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Date: Saturday, July 7th, 2007 11:22 pm (UTC)